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Today I am featuring...
And she will be doing a guest post and giveaway!
by Chelsea Pitcher
Release Date: May 7, 2013
by Gallery Books (an imprint of Simon & Schuster)
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Several years ago, I was flipping through a magazine when I came across an interview with Natalie Portman. In it, the interviewer mentioned that Portman hails from the same hometown as Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan (notorious partiers at the time). Why, the interviewer mused, did Natalie suppose those girls behaved so differently from her? Did she have anything to say about their behavior?
It was clear the interviewer was baiting her. All she had to do was bite. But Portman took the high road, saying (and I’m paraphrasing here, as this was a while ago):
I don’t know what kind of person I’d be without the support of my family. They are my rock.
It isn’t such a novel idea, is it? Of course a person’s support system affects her choices. Yet, so many times, when faced with a behavior we don’t understand, the inclination is to lash out, rather than try to relate. To do what’s easy, instead of what’s right.
Years later, as I sat down to write THE S-WORD, this idea still resonated with me. It might have even resonated more, considering the book’s high school setting. After all, how common is it to see a fellow student wearing an unusual outfit, and whisper quietly to a friend, “What was she thinking?” How easy is it to see a boy huddled in the park, lips clinging desperately to a joint, and mutter, “He’s wasting his life”?
After that, the names come easily: slut, burnout, loser, skank. They’re just whispers, shared between two friends. And even if they do catch on the wind and spread like wildfire, what’s the big deal? We’ve all heard that “sticks and stones” thing a thousand times. Words are only words.
Well here’s the thing. If we lived in a perfect world, where everyone had a supportive family and awesome friends, maybe being bullied at school wouldn’t have the power to ruin someone’s life. Those taunts could still hurt, scrape, and gnaw away at a person’s sense of value, but through the support of their family and friends, they’d find a way to get through it. They’d come home to hugs and encouragement and spend the night laughing on the phone with their friends. They’d ride on unicorns while Care Bears shot rainbows out of their tummies and…
You see where this is going. In reality, no one has such a perfect life. Even those with supportive families suffer through bouts of loneliness and insecurity. Those surrounded by friends still wonder if they’re truly known by the people in their lives. And what about the majority of teens, the ones without an ever-supportive family and awesome friends?
The ones whose parents work so often they never actually see their kids?
The ones who’ve been bounced in and out of foster homes their entire lives?
The ones who suffer abuse at the hands of their relatives?
In their own houses.
In their own bedrooms.
What about them?
The truth is, we often have no idea what’s going in someone’s personal life. No idea what their family is really like. No idea what they’ve already survived. And by passing on little slut-like words to our friends, even if we think no one is listening, we could be doing much more than ruining a person’s day.
We could be taking away her only safe place.
By reducing a person to an outfit, an action, a word, we could be ripping away someone’s only reprieve in a world wrought with pain, loss or abuse. And what does that leave him?
It’s something to think about, at least, the next time that cleverly crafted taunt forms on your lips. God, what a laugh you’ll get! People will be rolling on the floor. Then again, you could be taking away a person’s last refuge, leaving her nowhere to feel safe, untouched, undestroyed.
Is it worth it?
~There will be 1 winner
~Giveaway ends on May 17, 2013 @ 12:00 A.M.
~This giveaway is US/CAN
Finished copy of The S-Word.
Finished copy of The S-Word.
Get to know Chelsea Pitcher:
THANK YOU SO SO SO SO SO MUCH Chelsea FOR STOPPING BY! YOU'RE WELCOME BACK ANY TIME!! :)